Candlelight lovefeast services are a Christmas Eve tradition at Peace Moravian Church in south Charlotte.

A simple meal is an integral part of the Moravian lovefeasts in the church sanctuary, in addition to songs, fellowship, and a Christmas message from the church’s pastor, the Rev. Dr. James L. Doss.

Peace Moravian holds three lovefeasts on December 24. One is a children’s program in the afternoon, complete with sugar cookies and hot chocolate, while the other two are more typical lovefeasts in the afternoon and evening, with lovefeast buns from a bakery and mugs of coffee from a church recipe prepared in large coffee makers.

Peace Moravian Church in Charlotte

Peace Moravian Church in Charlotte holds three Christmas Eve lovefeasts, including one organized for children.

“The coffee is a very sweetened and creamy coffee – lots of cream and lots of sugar,” says Lynn Jones, head diener at the lovefeasts. (“Diener” is a German word meaning servant.)

Jones leads 22 women and men from the congregation, who act as dieners, serving the meal and distributing beeswax candles trimmed in red frill.

Women dieners don white blouses, black skirts, white aprons, and lace head coverings. Men who are dieners wear white shirts with dark neckties and black pants.

Churches can sometimes be precise in their standards for dieners. Jones knows of a church where all of the bows are tied in the apron strings to look identical.

In some churches, the role of diener is passed down through families, she says.

At Peace Moravian, “We had to decide whether we wanted it to look precision-like, or whether we wanted to include everybody, and we decided we wanted to include everybody,” Jones says.

One year, a child about 8 years old was helping Jones with some tasks. “You want to be a diener when you grow up, don’t you?” she asked the girl.

Peace Moravian Church Lovefeasts

The Christmas Eve lovefeasts at Peace Moravian Church in Charlotte are well-attended by visitors who enjoy a simple meal along with candlelight, songs, and fellowship.

“No, I want to be the head diener,” Jones says the girl replied.

That girl is now a college student, and Jones looks forward to her assuming the role of head diener someday.

Because of time constraints and the difficulty of baking their own lovefeast buns in the quantity required, Peace Moravian sends someone to purchase buns each year from Mrs. Pumpkin’s Bakery-Deli in Winston-Salem.

“They have a really nice taste,” Jones says, noting hints of spice and citrus in the sweet buns.

Some folks like to make sandwiches from the buns with the addition of ham and mustard, she says, though this isn’t the way buns are served for the lovefeast services.

Peace Moravian expects a full house at their lovefeasts. About 200 young people go to the children’s service, and another 500 to 600 people attend the two traditional lovefeasts, Jones says. In fact, she explains, lovefeasts are so popular with visitors that it’s best to arrive early to be assured of finding seats.

Jones describes the services as beautiful and “the perfect way to start Christmas.”

The most important thing about the lovefeast is, “That may be the only time some people really hear the real meaning of Christmas,” she says.

The dieners are on their feet a long time during the lovefeast, but it’s all worth it: “You walk out of here feeling like you’re walking on air,” Jones says.

Peace Moravian Church
4418 Rea Road
Charlotte, N.C. 28226
(704) 759-9939
See their calendar for the lovefeast schedule.

Order a Cookbook
A Serving of Peace is the cookbook of Peace Moravian Church. To purchase, email charlottesnyder54@gmail.com. The cost is $18 with shipping. Please note: Foods served at Peace Moravian Christmas Eve lovefeasts are not from the cookbook.

Emma Lib’s Sugar Cake (Moravian Recipe)

Makes at least 4 large, thin sheets

  • 1 cup water potatoes were boiled in
  • ¾ cup shortening
  • ¾ cup sugar
  • ¾ teaspoon salt
  • 1 package yeast
  • ⅓ cup lukewarm water
  • 1 cup flour
  • 1 cup mashed potatoes
  • 2 beaten eggs
  • 5 ½ cups flour (or more)
  • Brown sugar
  • Cinnamon
  • Butter

Combine boiling water, shortening, sugar, and salt. Cool to lukewarm and add yeast (softened in lukewarm water). Mix to smooth batter with 1 cup flour. Mix mashed potatoes and eggs and add to batter. Cover and let rise in warm place for 2 hours until light and bubbly. Add rest of flour. Knead lightly on floured surface. Let rise again in greased bowl until doubled. Punch down. Grease pans. Spread dough thinly. Cover and let rise until doubled. Sprinkle brown sugar and cinnamon on top. Punch holes with fingers and fill with butter (about an inch apart). Bake at 375 degrees about 20 to 25 minutes. Dough can also be formed into lovefeast buns.

(Recipe from Marie Weber Nodine, her mother’s recipe, in A Serving of Peace)

Hope Yancey is a freelance writer in Charlotte. She is a regular contributor to the community news editions of The Charlotte Observer.

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